Walter Mitty — Needs vs Wants

Walter Mitty Medicine

Many of us spend life chasing what we want but remain confused on what we need.

Perhaps we dream about the time we (finally) say what we think.

Someday I will say, “Sir, you eat too much.”

Even to suggest such a vicious thought betrays an unconscious heartlessness. (Call the college!)

Imagine charting only useful clinical data: AOM, Rx Amox. Nothing more. Delete 300 words about all you did not find – all you considered but did not do.

How long could you hide your rebellion? A day? A week or more?

To sleep, perchance to dream…

Walter Mitty – The Movie

In a character-defining scene, Walter sits on a bench waiting for the train. The elevated platform stands several stories above street level.

Walter chats on his cellphone with Todd Maher of eHarmony, an online dating service. Walter loves Cheryl, a co-worker, and wants to leave her a ‘wink’ online.

Todd looks at Walter’s profile. It is blank. Walter must tell about himself: What he has done? Where he has travelled?

But Walter hasn’t travelled or done anything special. He just goes to work.

Have you done anything, noteworthy? … or mentionable?” Todd asks.

Walter freezes. The phone slips from his ear.

A distressed dog barks inside a nearby building. Something is wrong and Walter must find out.

Walter starts running past all the businesspeople on the platform. He picks up speed and leaps over the railing, arms outstretched. Flying through the air, Walter falls several stories and crashes through a window in a low-rise next to the train. Continue reading “Walter Mitty — Needs vs Wants”

How To Choose A Great Career

A good career choice?

A happy life is rare without the right career.

We all want happiness, so we are all desperate to pick a career that we love. Especially doctors.

Choose poorly and we end up surviving on an income that we cannot live without, trapped in a job we cannot tolerate.

But we are desperate for the wrong thing.

Here is a bit of stupid advice: Do what you love, and you never have to work a day in your life. But just because you love to pound drums for screaming fans does not mean you would love to do it for galley slaves.

Bad questions always give wrong answers. We ask what we want to be or do. What do we love? But the question is incomplete. It is equally important to ask about how, where, and under what conditions we would like to work.

Career Choice

When someone asks you for career advice, I suggest you ask:

Do you love customer service?

Does structure help or hold you back?

Do you want responsibility and control?

Customer Service

The essence of customer service is solving problems for someone who holds power. Serving someone whether they want it or not, in whatever way seems best to you, is not service. Continue reading “How To Choose A Great Career”